“So
God created man in his own image,
in the image of God created he him;
male and
female created he them”……Genesis 1:27.
Pathianin
Eden rihuana Nupang ni Ipa(mihriam) a siam zoi han tha ati em em a, athil siam
dang zong zong hei hnekin a lawm bik achang. Asanchu, ama angka siam ei chang
leiin. Ma huna inthokin vona ri in hun ni thil tamka an thleng, changrochu
mihriam chu nupang ni ipa, chi inhnika nai ei la chang. Atuna ei khawvel nih
tual sung dan dung zui chun Ipa chu nupang chunga thuneipu in eiin ngai, mahi
Darlong society chai chang loiin, khawvela hnam tin society ngaidan a chang
zok. Ma ngaidan hi inka tawkin mo pawm a kai ti zawna chu mi hroikan an ngaitua
ke ring. “In angna(Right to Equality)” hi Ipa in anei zaka thap den chu nupang
homin a nei ve. Pathianin khawvela a thil siam awm hei zong zong chunga
thuneina mihriam hnianga an hlan han Ipa chung chaia thuneina a pek achang no,
nupang ni Ipa chunga in angbak in thuneina a pe(Gen 1:28). Changnawle atun ei
society a nupang/Ipa in angloina awm chu then thenka loi hang tarlang rei. Pakhatna
chu, in Darlong society (Rengram tlangmi laia changkang nih chunginchoi chem) a
hin nupang hman ei nei changrochu Ipa ding chun ihman a boi; An hnina chu
nupang hrang lai homa a zat dang dang ei nei: 1)Tui tum loi nunghak hman chu Rs
1100/-, 2) Rikal insen(Inlaw) hman chu Rs.900/-, 3) Hrolkawng intukpui hman chu
Rs.350/- a chang(Darlong hnam ziadan bu 2012 dung zuiin). Ma tina chu ei
Darlong society a hin nupang chu thil(Product/Commodities) angka mai in eiingai
achang. Ma angka chu loi zuk chang ta no
siala chun nupang chunga hin inkata mo hman hrang hrang(Price tag) ei hnam
danin a bel, changrochu Ipa chunga chun hman I hom a bei nghal no. Khawvel
kareng gender equality dingin nansa fe kan rawl a sua lai hin ei hnam dan laia
ma angkata dan famkim loi hi awm ahrisel naw in ken ngai keima mimal ngaituana
chun. Ma angkata dan ei i nei hi buaina lian fe chu an piang tir no mai thei,
changrochu, a hnam angkan, a society angkan ei changkangna loi hang tarlang
dingin awm eila ma thu a hin imo ei tarlang ding? A thungna tha chem awm thei
chu, mahi Darlong hnam dan achang, kin Pi ni Pu hei laia inthoka an hong I kal
pui a chang. An ngai chu a bei mai thei, changhomin inhlawkna hnekin in hengna
a nei hroi no. Ram ni hnam changkangna/Chunginchawina mithiam heiin an study
hin gender equality hi index poimaw taka in ngai achang. Maleiachun, gender
equality ngaipoimo loi ram nih hnam chu changkang na famkim lampui an zui no
ti na chang. Entirna tamka ala awm, changhomin hong tarlang rit no ning asanchu
ma hei hi thil thar ei la hoi thin loi lem an chang no. Mabak homa ma ki hong
inziak ngei hom hi chang siala ei ulian/hruaitu hei kuar athlung chun an lawmna
hnekin lawmloina tui chu ken sil nghal ding ti hom hi ki ring hnel no.
Tuitumloi term hi ei buai hrima. Baibula hin virgin tuna angka hin a hmanga. Changrochu, tuitumloi tihi nupang thi la nei ngailoi tina khai a loi chang. Ki hawina hi ala nai ve. Kumia kum bul lokhan ulian khatka rek ma tuitumloi thua kinin thunga, ati chu darlong'n tuitumloi ei iti hichu thi la nei loi; a thi insu dinga tuia la tum ngailoi hi tuitumloi a chang ati. A dikin ke hawi........asanchu tong chungchang dekte ki hneka hawi a chang hate, ki hnail thei no. Virgin tina achang no. Ma paveng den chun tunlai hinte tuitumloi anti chun tlangval neiloi mo imo tiang hin nin ngaia, ei tong reng hi a dikin nin hmang ta no. Nin awi angkan nin phua atia....ti ding ki nei vai no.
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